I have an anxiety disorder and lately life has been such a roller coaster that I have been losing too much sleep and unable to quiet my mind much at all. Might you have a suggestion of some sort of fiction that will help me get outside of my own head?-Anxiety Girl
Dear Anxiety Girl,
I'm so sorry about your roller coaster life, and your anxiety disorder. I too suffer from both of those, so keep your head up, and know that we both fight the good fight!! As for your request, I have in mind a few books to help, but I would also like to suggest two non-fiction books that will hopefully strike your fancy.
The first book I want to suggest to you is Heroes and Monsters: An Honest Look at the Struggle within All of Us by Josh Riebock. When I read this about two years ago I had no idea what I was in for. I was often bewildered, in a good way, at the journey I was taking with this book. It's a very entertaining read that doesn't pull the punches. It's gut-wrenchingly honest, but doesn't leave a sour taste in your mouth like some other books that claim "utter real-ness". It may help you sort out your roller coaster ride life by the end of it.
The second book I want to suggest is a memoir by Rachel Friedman: The Good Girl's Guide to Getting Lost: A Memoir of Three Continents, Two Friends, and One Unexpected Adventure. This one has stuck with me over the years, Rachel's memories of traveling to Ireland and Australia creating a mouth-watering wanderlust in my heart every time I think of them. You say you want to get outside your own head. Whenever that plagued me during my college years, my mom used to tell me to volunteer or do some sort of self-challenging work, and my father would tell me to travel. If you can't really do either at the moment, why not read about both?
The last bit of fiction I'll offer you are two different authors whom you can choose freely of their works: William Wordsworth and the great F. Scott Fitzgerald. Both of these authors are so popular and so fantastic, I can't suggest just one certain work to you in fear you've already read it. I suggest Wordsworth because his poetry, along with Longfellow's, has always had a soothing effect on my soul. Fitzgerald is such a genius with his novels and short stories that they utterly transport you to another time entirely.
The two non-fiction books I want to suggest to you I will suffer myself to only just mention them, seeing as this post is probably running entirely too long. John and Stasi Eldredge are masters in their field of Christianity and seeking out one's true self. Two of their books may do you some good in this troubled time: Captivating Revised & Updated: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul and Becoming Myself: Embracing God's Dream of You. These books have changed my life every time I have read them. I hope they help you.
One last bit of advice, have you tried journaling? Take deep breaths, Anxiety Girl. You'll get through this season.
Happy reading, and many thanks for writing to Bibliotherapy, etc! I hope that I have helped by guiding you to a good book.
Best is a book twice read,
Your Bibliotherapist
P.S. Totally forgot one more book. The Ocean at the End of the Lane by Neil Gaiman. He's a god among authors.
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